Using Delivery Food Services – the Restaurant Ones

Using Delivery Food Services – the Restaurant Ones

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So are you using the Delivery Food Services such as UberEats and Door Dash during this pandemic? I know you all are stuck in your homes like me if you are not at work. And I know that we are all tired of cooking. Well, at least I am. It is such a crazy time and I went from cooking 1 meal a day to having to prepare 3 meals or more a day for my family and it get so overwhelming, because nobody wants the same the same thing. And you all know how much I hate to cook. So, yes I have been using delivery service to make them happy.

How are you doing with them, if you are using them? How is your Keto journey going during the lockdown? Overall, how are you doing?

I find that I am struggling with boredom eating. I will pop things in my mouth even when I am not hungry. I hate that. But I have been working on replacing the food that I may pop in my mouth by exchanging it with water. I use a splash of MIO in my drink and it gives me some flavor. It has been a mental struggle. I have to ask myself every time I go to grab some food. Am I really hungry? Which 9 out of 10 times I am not.

Remember there is always the whole food delivery services also

What can you do?

  • I found some things that I do that have helped. I find that if I ask myself if I am hungry and actually answer myself out loud then I can hear myself say no I am not hungry and I won’t eat something.
  • I also find that if I keep on my intermittent fasting routine and bet myself something like getting to get off my self imposed to do list for the day to do something like reading I do amazingly.
  • Also, a big thing, I found that if I meditate in the morning I have more discipline.

Those are just a few of things I have found that make it easier. But also, I find it easier to order for my family through Doordash to get them food. With the free delivery right now it makes it easy for me so that I am not tempted with food. If I don’t prepare it I don’t taste it. But I also found that I love them. I can still eat Keto eating restaurant food. But it is not always easy. Completely Keto has on the go Keto. Which gives you all the foods you can eat from quiet a few different restaurants. It makes my life so much easier keeping me on track.

Some real good pluses with the On the Go Keto:

  • Never get kicked out of Ketosis
  • Covers all major fast food restaurants
  • Always know what to order
  • Discover which restaurants to avoid

It will also help when we all get to go back in the world and we want to eat out. We want to experience the world again. We want to see people. I don’t know how much your world will change once this lifts. I know I plan on taking things slowly since I am one of the people that are at higher risk and so are my two boys. They both have asthma and have had multiple bouts of pneumonia. But I know at least one of them want to go out and he is going crazy staying in the house all day. He is my active, always moving child. He can barely contain his self.

Using Delivery Service

I have found that using delivery service has brought some normalcy to our lives. It brings some of the world to us. Making it easier on my kids and even my husband, even though he has been back to work after his shop made it possible to follow the social distancing rules. I am still at home working and doing homeschooling. I actually love it. I’m finding it easy. But I know and understand not everyone is like me. I am an outgoing person and I am a go getter. But, I would rather do it from home. I am not a person that likes to go and do sit down dinners at restaurants, so after this all over I will probably continue doing the delivery service.

A little story about myself, just a precursor I am a person that passes out in crowds, yeah I am one of those.

So here is the story: (it is short)

I was at a good friends fathers funeral service, it was a grave side service, I was in the front with the family and what did I do right there and then, I passed out and almost ended up in the grave site along with the casket.

See short story, but I have done the same things at concerts and restaurants. It is embarrassing but that was the worse and still brought up by the family. But the plus about that incident I gave them a reason to laugh at that time. Oh and they did.

Is Keto for Weight Loss or Health

Is Keto for Weight Loss or Health

So is Keto for weight loss or health? That’s a discussion that my brother and I had over the holiday dinner. I found out he was following Keto and I was really surprised. We shared recipes and how we felt about Keto. We were both surprised by the way it had changed our lives.

But when we really got to talking about it it wasn’t the weight loss we focused on. It was the way we felt.

My brother is 6.5 years younger than me and about a foot taller than me. If I haven’t mentioned this before I am the oldest of 8 kids. Yes, 8. We all are not from the same parents some have the same mom or the same dad but I have 7 siblings.

From the Mouths of Babes

As we started discussing the Keto diet we talked about food and how we have lost weight but then it got down to the real reason for it when my baby brother, who is 20 years younger than me, got involved in it when he asked us why we didn’t just exercise and eat low-fat foods. And we both said at the same time that it doesn’t work for us that our problem was inflammation. (Link to article about inflammation)

That is when the real discussion began. We both began explaining to him how much better we felt. That we didn’t have joint pain, muscle aches or any of the other problems we had before. My brother explained to my little brother that he could actually climb a flight of stairs now without being out of breath when he got to the top. And I told him I no longer woke up to severe joint pain.

My brother that is on the Keto diet wasn’t really that overweight he had the beer belly but he was actually pretty trim other than that. He is 40 years old and really quite active. He is a heavy machinery operator and that is a very physical job.

So What Did We Have in Common

We both had inflammation that was causing health issues caused by inflammation. And the Keto lifestyle helped us get past it. So neither of us were really doing it for the weight loss, we were doing it because of the health benefits. And after talking to him a little longer he told me he started doing it for weight loss in the beginning because his doctor recommended it so that he wouldn’t become a type 2 diabetic. He was told that he was borderline diabetic. That he needed to take some weight off.

So he did initially start doing Keto to lose weight. Like most of us that are doing it, but he is making this his lifestyle. He likes the way he feels that he doesn’t have the digestive issues he had before or the pain that was keeping him from living his active lifestyle. He loves taking his motorcycle out and loves riding with his club members and he also loves playing with his children, hiking, and camping. And now he can do all that without feeling miserable and tired.

Keto for Weight loss or Health

As we continued to talk we talked about how people can’t be sold on the health reasons for Keto. That when you tell them that they will feel better they go oh okay. But when you show them how much weight you can lose in a short time they jump on board with it. They want those fast results.

He told me he has told other people about how it has changed his life. That he feels like a new man and they tell him well you haven’t lost that much weight how has it changed your life. He goes into how his energy level has improved and how he can sleep through the night. He no longer is in a brain fog. They just don’t understand that and many people don’t until they experience it for themselves.

Speed Keto

And it is totally amazing the results you will see with keto if you are doing it correctly. So many people have won on Keto. Their life has been changed because of it. I’ve been a member of the Speed Ketosis Community for over 6 months now and some of the women and men there have totally transformed themselves. Losing over 200 pounds. And that is amazing but what is even more amazing is the way they talk about how much better they feel.

They talk about no longer having to take medications for all that ailed them before they started their Speed Keto journey. They talk about how they can do things that they were never able to do before. Like run marathons, go out and do a full day with their young children. I am inspired daily by the Speed Keto group.

If you go to many of the other Keto groups you will find the same things. Success story after success story. And yes a lot of them showing theirs before and after pictures. But that is not all they talk about their victories of their health success. Like getting pregnant after years of trying or not having to take blood pressure medications any longer, or no longer being dependant on diabetic medications. So Keto is not just for weight loss it is also for your health in my own opinion.

Another Question my Baby Brother Had

Don’t you get tired of eating the same things day in and day out? I don’t know why everyone thinks that. Do they really think Keto is just eating eggs, bacon and butter? It isn’t the internet is a wealth of information. And a lot of recipes. We don’t just eat those three staples, in fact, most of the time I don’t eat those. I eat such a variety of food that I never get bored with my food. I eat chicken, steak, seafood, and vegetables. My fats come from butter, heavy whipping cream in moderation, ghee, an avocado that I mix with things because I hate avocados. Yes, I am that girl. I even eat sweet foods. Have you ever been on Pinterest you can find so many desserts on there? My favorite is the ice cream and fat bomb recipes.

And then the other question is — how can you afford it it is so expensive? Well, now it can be. But how much more expensive it is than going to a fast-food restaurant every day or eating how you used too. You are not buying diet food. You are buying regular food. Meat and vegetables. And if you are doing the intermittent fasting with Keto heck you just saved 2 meals a day right there two to three times a week.

What I Do

I do intermittent fasting 5 out of seven days. And while doing Speed Keto I can do a three day fast. Which saves me some money right there. Yes, I still have to feed my family. But I don’t buy separate foods for myself as I used to on other diets I tried. Like Medifast, that cost me a fortune and it actually didn’t help me lose weight and it made my inflammation worse. And the food tasted horrible. I even did a program where it was six small meals a day and that was expensive and really boring I felt like I was always cooking or preparing food.

When I buy foods I buy the foods I like and that my family likes and I add a side for them. But lately I have been doing cauliflower mashed faux potatoes for the and the cauliflower rice and they actually love it. So win-win for my family and myself.

Keto is not hard and you don’t have to eat boring food. It actually tastes amazing. You get the flavor of real foods and fats. There are such variety and flavor. Remember the only things you are cutting out are the high carb content that the body doesn’t really need. It is not hard and once you find things that you love it really becomes very easy. But it becomes easier when you see and feel the results of it.

Why do you do Keto

So I am asking why do you do Keto. Is it for your health or is it just so that you can get into that little sexy dress? Email me and let me know. Or leave a comment below. I’d really like to know. I know I have weight loss goals still, I haven’t reached it yet. I haven’t even reached my health goals as of today and I am constantly learning about the wonders of Keto.

The more I learn about Keto and how it can help you the more excited I become. My daughter is even jumping on board with it. She has severe PCOS and is always in pain because of it and as she has seen by watching me and how it has helped me with my endometriosis, (I was never diagnosed with PCOS, but I know that it is hereditary.) She is excited to start so that she is not suffering anymore and can live her life to the fullest.

I’m starting my third round of Speed Keto and I am excited about it. I will be doing it with my daughter. I can’t wait to see how much better she feels and I can’t wait to see my results.

Why am I doing Speed Keto When I Can Find Everything I Need Online

Well, that is easy. It is laid out for your plan. You don’t have to think about it. I do enough thinking in my everyday life. And I hate thinking about what to cook. I actually hate cooking and that is why this site doesn’t have a lot of recipes on it and it also doesn’t have any cooking videos. I HATE COOKING! There I’ve said it. I work full-time and have a son with Autism that I home school. I have this little blog and another one that I run. I’m busy. I love doing research but I don’t like cooking.

So Speed Keto helps me. It has a shopping list, recipes and a daily meal plan. It tells me exactly what to do so that I don’t have to think about it ever. I just get my shopping list and go purchase what is on it. Prepare the meals as instructed and eat. Easy peasy. And guess what the results are amazing.

I know I go on and on about Speed Keto but really, what diet program can you do that you pay a one time $39 dollar fee that gives you an easy to follow meal-plan that tastes good and is good for you. With a support system in place if you have questions that doesn’t charge you monthly or that you don’t have to do research on the internet constantly or track your macros. And now they have an online store that you can get cookbooks, smoothy mixes, electrolytes, and more. The store opens on December 2 and will have everything that you need. Save this link to get you started.

My Reasons for this Blog & Speed Keto

So why Speed Keto? I don’t have to find recipes, I don’t have to think about it. It’s all action plus it is really simple. I need simplicity in my life, I make things hard enough by adding things daily to my to-do list. I am building a business with my other blog which I am loving. I’m researching weekly the benefits of Keto and educating people on it which I really love. I am sharing my experience with it and before long I will be a Keto and Intermittent fasting health coach that I show much I love Keto. I love how it makes me feel how alive I feel and I love sharing that information with you. I’m hoping I can inspire you to become the best you that you can be.

Whether it be just doing Keto or following Speed Keto, doing it for weight loss or for health reasons, I am here to help you. If you have questions or want to more about something ask me. Email me, comment below I am here for you on this Keto Journey you are following. I am by no means an expert yet but I can guarantee that I will research your question for you and answer your question. I’ve been learning more every day and I plan on being an expert. Until next time Keto on.

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The Holidays are Upon Us – Let’s Do it Keto Style

The Holidays are Upon Us – Let’s Do it Keto Style

The holidays are upon us but don’t panic you can still do it Keto Style. Really, you can. I know everyone on every social media platform is talking about their holiday meals, desserts, and drinks. And you are probably thinking how can I stick to Keto with all the temptation out there. But you can… You’ve got this girl.

Today, I am going to be talking about Keto dishes that will make the holidays delicious.

Holiday Recipes for you!

Keto Brined Roasted Herb Turkey

Delicious Brined Turkey Keto Style
Prep Time12 d
Cook Time2 hrs 30 mins
Course: Main Course
Cuisine: American
Servings: 5


  • 5 gallon bucket
  • Roasting Pan


  • 14 lb Turkey
  • 1 1/4 C Stevia/Erythritol mixture sugar
  • 1 1/4 C Kosher Salt
  • 3 stalks Celery chopped
  • 1 each Onion Coarsely chopped
  • 2 sprigs Fresh Thyme
  • 2 sprigs Fresh Sage
  • 2 sprigs Fresh Flat Leaf Parsley
  • 4 Tbsp Ghee Melted
  • 1 tsp Dried Thyme
  • 2 tsp Paprika
  • 2 1/2 Cup Water
  • 1 Gallon Water


  • Heat 1 quart of water until warm
  • Add Salt and Stevia mix and stir until completely dissolved
  • Add remaining water and stir again
  • Put water into 5 gallon bucket or tub, submerge turkey and weigh down with something. I like using full gallon jug – clean of course
  • Cover and place in refrigerator overnight (8-12 hours) the longer the better.
  • Rinse turkey thoroughly with cold water and pat dry
  • Place half the celery & onion along with the fresh parsley, thyme, sage into the cavity of the turkey. Put the remaining in the bottom of the roasting pan
  • Place Turkey in the pan breast side up on the roasting rack.
  • Brush the turkey with half the melted ghee, sprinkle with salt, pepper, paprika, and the dried thyme
  • Pour 2 1/2 cup of water into the pan and place it on the lower rack of the oven. Baste every 20 minutes with the remaining ghee and juices from the bottom of the pan turning the pan 1/4 turn each time you baste and cook until internal temp is 165 F for about 2.5 hours.
  • Let Rest for 20 minutes. And use the juices for gravy. YUM

Keto Turkey Gravy

It's Not Thanksgiving without Gravy
Prep Time5 mins
Cook Time17 mins
Course: Side Dish
Cuisine: American
Keyword: Keto Gravy, Thanksgiving Gravy
Servings: 6


  • 4 Tbsp Butter
  • 1 Cup Turkey Drippings
  • 2 Cup Broth
  • 2 tsp Worcestershire sauce
  • 1 tsp garlic powder
  • Kosher salt
  • Freshly Ground Black Pepper
  • ½ tsp xanthan gum


  • In a medium skillet over medium heat, melt butter. Slowly add pan drippings and broth, whisking until smooth. Bring to a boil, then add Worcestershire and garlic powder and season with salt and pepper. Reduce heat and let simmer 10 minutes. 
  • Add xanthan gum and whisk to combine. Let simmer another 5 to 10 minutes until starting to thicken. Gravy will thicken more as it cools.
  • If gravy is too thick, thin with more broth as necessary. Serve warm.

Keto Pumpkin Cheesecake

Don't Let Keto keep you from enjoying the Holiday meals with the family. 5 Carbs
Prep Time30 mins
Cook Time30 mins
Resting time:2 hrs
Course: Dessert
Cuisine: American
Keyword: Pumpkin Cheese Cake, Thanksgiving Keto Dessert
Servings: 8
Calories: 172kcal
Author: Jessica


  • Springform pan
  • Aluminum foil
  • Hand Blender


  • 32 oz Ricotta Cheese Full Fat
  • 1 C Pumpkin Puree
  • 2/3 C Swerve
  • 3 Tbsp Superfine Almond Flour
  • 1 Tbsp Coconut Flour
  • 1 ½ tsp Pumpkin Pie Spice
  • 6 Lg Eggs

Whip Cream

  • 1 C Heavy Whipping Cream
  • 2 Tbsp Swerve
  • ½ tsp Vanilla Extract


  • Preheat oven to 300 degrees.
  • Grease the sides and bottom of an 8-inch springform pan with butter. Cover bottom with foil halfway up the pan making sure no water (adding to the pan when baking) or any part is open or exposed. Set aside.
  • In a bowl whisk together flours, pumpkin pie spice, salt and set aside.
  • In a large bowl blend ricotta and pumpkin puree until well combined. Add sugar.
  • Add eggs whisking in one at a time.
  • Mix in the remaining prepared dry ingredients, and then fold in the vanilla.
  • ace pan in the middle of a baking pan with a 1 inch lip. Add warm water to the pan util the water reaches about ½ inch up the springform pan. Bake for about 1 hour and 15 minutes or until the center is firm (not jiggly). Remove from the oven and cool for 30 minutes. Refrigerate.
  • Serve with WHIPPED CREAM: In a deep bowl mix cream, sugar and vanilla with a hand blender for 2 minutes or until desired consistency.

Now just add some mashed cauliflower, a green bean casserole, stuffing and some Keto rolls and you are set for a delicious Thanksgiving. Let it not be said that we can’t eat well. Keto is actually delicious and you can make entire meals that the whole family can enjoy. Even for the holidays.

I can tell you that that cheesecake is amazing I tried it before posting this. And OMG it was delicious. I love pumpkin pie but this blew it out of the water.

Now share this with your friends or keep it a secret and feed them a Keto meal and surprise the hell out of them.

Check it out:

Speed Keto has a great Thanksgiving recipe book on their facebook group that you can get free when you purchase the speed keto program. Some of the freebies they give are worth the program cost itself. And follow my journey on Speed Keto. I try to keep you up to date with my journey here.

Continuing on My Speed Keto Journey

Continuing on My Speed Keto Journey

As you all know I am a big Speed Keto fan and I always talk about my Speed Keto Journey and now I am an affiliate and yes the links below are affiliate links.  Don’t worry though they won’t cost you a cent more to buy I may receive a small commission. But more than that you will see life-changing results. Just know that I never promote anything I don’t do myself or use myself.  I love Speed Keto so much I wish I could shout it from the rooftops.  It has made my life easier. 

Speed Keto has helped me lose weight and feel a million times better. You can read here about my journey.  But I had a little slip up not too long ago. But I am back on the Speed Keto Wagon. So I am doing this quick update about my continuing Journey on Speed Keto.

If you don’t know what fat-adapted is in Keto it is when your body is burning fat as its main source of fuel. Thank goodness I didn’t completely fail at Keto when I slipped up and fell out of the wagon. I was able to jump right back into my lifestyle and continue on this amazing journey.

I started back on Speed Keto on the 20th of October, right before Halloween one of my favorite holidays. I knew I would only have a little over a month to get back to being fat-adapted in about a month period before we get slammed with all the holiday sweets.

Illness Hits

But guess what I got sick.  Yay me! I don’t recommend doing Speed Keto when you are really sick. I had the flu.  Not that you can’t but your energy level will be really low and preparing meals is hard.  I did do the fasts because I didn’t feel like eating regular food so I stuck with the broth and drank my electrolytes.  So in a way, I did stick with it.

So this post is not all about Speed Keto but that I am still continuing and starting over from the beginning.  But the program is so good and easy to follow it will not be a problem.

Let’s Dive into My Continuing Journey with Speed Keto

As you know I fully back Speed Keto.  Not just because it works for me, but from all the results I’ve seen from so many others.  I’ve watched women and men totally transform their bodies, but even more than that they have transformed their health.

I’ve watched women that were dependant on insulin being told that they didn’t need it any longer.  Women fighting chronic pain no longer hurting.  I find it amazing.  Seeing families doing it together improving their lives just by changing how they eat.

I myself have found that I can keep up with all my children’s activities and my own responsibilities.  I normally feel 100% better when following the speed keto plan.  I have found that as soon as I eat differently I start feeling bad again.  I know it is not the same for everyone. But for me, I need to stick with the plan and if you read my other posts you will know that.

So what is Speed Keto

So what exactly is Speed Keto?  It is a program that has changed my life. It is a complete meal plan, recipes.  There are no counting macros which makes it easy for the newbies out there. It is an educational program that tells you how Keto works.  

Speed Keto is a community of like-minded individuals who want to lose weight and get healthier supporting each other.  There are over 30,000 people in the group.  But if you want to be in a smaller group you can always join the Guns, Buns and Abs group. 

Speed Keto helps you gain momentum in your weight loss goals.  It teaches you how to introduce yourself to intermittent fasting. Which I have found has helped me drop weight fast and get me fat-adapted a lot sooner.   

Completely Keto also has a lot of other things you can get on their site. My new favorite is the Mocha MCT, the New Strawberry Smoothie which is going fast and the delicious electrolytes. So head over and take a look.

How Speed Keto Has Helped Me

I’m sure you are asking how does this have anything to do with my continuing speed keto journey?  Well, simple it has taught me that by following Speed Keto my body has started changing and has begun to heal from all the foods I used to put into my body.

My inflammation is under control as long as I am following the program or a modified version of it.  I have lost a good amount of weight to date. Soon I will share before and after pictures with you.  I’m still not a confident person I should be.  I’ve my self-doubts about my progress.  I see the scale move, I see my clothes get looser, but I see that big girl in the mirror. So as my confidence builds I will start sharing more.  

I may even have my husband take some pictures of me soon. So I can be the person I am encouraging you to be.  Keep reading for some more exciting info.  Something I am working toward and more ways I can help you all.  

Send Me Your Speed Keto Stories Please

So, ladies, I know a lot of you have done Speed Keto, and I want your stories.  Send me your success stories, your challenges and whatnot. I want to share them.  If you want it to be anonymous I can do that.  But I want people to see that Speed Keto works.  Email me at  I would really love before and after pictures if you don’t mind being on a the blog here.  

And if you haven’t started your Speed Keto Journey yet.  What’s stopping you? Email me your questions or concerns.  I might just have the answers.   

Some News other Than Speed Keto

In other news today, something exciting.  I am getting my Keto and Intermittent fasting education and will soon be a Certified Coach.  I am dedicated to giving you all the best information I can and I am always researching and learning about Keto.  I am no expert but I hope to be always learning to provide answers to your questions.  

I may not be a huge recipe girl. I hate cooking. But I love being healthy and I know you do too. So as I learn I will be teaching you also so that you can have the best life possible and a delicious time getting time there. 

How Does What You Eat Affect Your Depression

How Does What You Eat Affect Your Depression

How does what you eat affect your depression? Okay, I am going to be brutally honest here. I have been eating like total and utter crap lately. So much has changed in my life over the last 2 months. I got my new job, and school has started for my kids and I am struggling with it all. Having to change my thought path is the hardest.

And with changing that thought path I became overwhelmed. I know getting my new job was a good thing for my family. But I didn’t want to work for an outside company. I wanted to grow my own business and taking the job took time away from that. And caused me to stress eat. Yep, I said it, I stressed ate. Which included all the things that make me feel miserable. Because what you eat can affect your depression.

So what foods affect my depression? The foods that are an absolute no go for me are grains, foods high in refined sugar. And they are also my go-to when I am stressed. Even though I know they cause me a lot of pain. But I caught myself and limited myself. Even though I did limit those foods I still suffered the consequences of my eating. My hands and feet are stiff and sore. I feel bloated and my depression got the best of me yesterday.

I woke up angry and felt alone. You are probably asking why is a Keto or Low Carb blogger telling you about a slip-up? Simple, it is easy to preach about sticking to your guns and following a diet strictly but you know what that isn’t me. I am human I’m not a machine. I make mistakes and I want you to know that I understand when you do too.

Messing up – And My Depression and the Food

I’ve noticed over the years that if I eat certain foods, I become that “woe is me girl”. And that is what happened yesterday. I woke up sad, mad, aggravated and discouraged and crying. I felt alone in my world. Like no one cared about my goals or dreams. Which is so far from the truth. My family supports me in all of my endeavors.

But even more than that I felt like I didn’t have any friends. I looked online, and no one, I looked at my cell phone again no one. But it wasn’t them. It was me. They have texted me over the last month and I didn’t have time for them. I haven’t posted online in a while or responded to messages that I have received. So again me.

I made excuses to everyone over the last month that I didn’t have time to do this or that because of work or my many other things. But in reality, I was sitting on my couch stuffing my face because I wasn’t happy. I was upset and depressed and most of all ashamed of the way I had been eating. I wasn’t this Keto Guru I was proclaiming to be to all of them and they would know.

But more than what I was eating was causing my depression

The way I started eating is what caused me to be unhappy. The foods that I have restricted with Keto are the foods that cause inflammation in my body. I know this I did a whole article on it called Keto & Depression which explains what you eat affects your depression. I think I knew it last week when I wrote the article about the 30-day challenge. So today is my first day of that challenge.

So far so good. I have stayed on track. And by this time next month, I should be my old self. No more self-doubt. Because I do know what the Keto Lifestyle has done for me. It has transformed me into a new person. I know that I can get my web-design company off the ground. I am good at it, I have my first three clients already booked. How, my friends, the ones that I thought were not there for me.

You Come Into This World Alone and you Leave it Alone.

This is a saying that kept popping into my head over the last month or so. And the more I thought about it the more I knew it wasn’t correct. I know many of you may argue that. But hear me out.

When you are born, you are born with your mother right there. Even if she gave you up for adoption, she still had you, and she was still there. You weren’t alone. There were also doctors and staff on hand in many cases. I know this isn’t true in all cases but I know it was mine. My mom and my whole family were there for my birth.

My family has been there for every struggle. Even when I was going through all the testing I went through for my pain. They were there. My friends had my back and my family held my hands. I didn’t do it on my own even my birth I didn’t do it on my own – to tell you the truth my mom did most of the work.

As for my eating, that I did alone, my husband and my kids all told me that I shouldn’t be eating the things I did, they knew it would make me feel bad, but I made the choice, but on the flip side they are right there for me when I told them I needed their help to take control back and feel better again.

You are not alone

I am not alone in this journey and neither are you. If you don’t have the support of your family and friends you do have it from me. I will help you in any way that I can. You can hit me up on my facebook page, you can email, you can come over to the group and ask questions, I am here for you.

Depression sucks and feeling alone sucks even more. Foods cause my depression, foods cause my pain in my body, foods cause me to gain weight and feel bad about myself. But I am the one making the choice to eat those foods. Knowing full well what they do to me.

Alone but not Alone

Now, I know many people die alone, but think about this – I read obituaries, I know that is kind of dark, but it was actually my job at one time to look at all of them when I was a paralegal for an estate planning and probate attorney and I still do it to this day. We would read them to see if any of our estate clients passed and then we would contact the families and send out flowers during their time of grieving to let them know they were in our thoughts and not alone.

But the more I read the more I realized even then that families still came together for each other. And the person that passed was not alone. So many of the articles said they were surrounded by their families and friends in the end, and others said they passed peacefully in their sleep. Even then they were not alone, they were in the thoughts of their loved ones and their friends.

Don’t get me wrong I hear of the horrors of the world and how people do die alone. But from this day forward I am going to think about my life and about those around me, those in my own circle and let them all know that they may be alone in their homes, alone in their thoughts, but that they are never truly alone because I am there for them. Just like I am there for you.

My Goal of this Blog

My goal with this blog is not selling you things, I do promote things here that I truly believe in and I do make a commission on some. But my goal is to educate you and help you be the best you that you can be. I know how it feels to feel alone on this journey, but I want you to know that you are not. I am here to help and I will answer any and all questions.

And the reason behind this post is to let you know that food does have a lot to do with depression. Whether it be the way certain foods can affect your body and cause inflammation and chemical reactions in your body that increase depression and the way you can fix it or at least make it better.

But even more is that I mess up, I go off Keto, I am not perfect and you don’t have to be either. Depression is a serious thing, it makes your head go to a very dark place and I myself don’t like that place. And if making certain tweaks to my diet can help that I will do it.

So as for the thirty-day challenge, I am starting it today. Pick your program. I am doing Speed Keto this month because of their large support group, but you can choose the one you want to do. There is also KikStart Keto. You don’t even have to do a program just follow Strict Keto, but I do I highly recommend a program because they do give structure with no guessing or research. Remember what you eat can affect your depression, and getting just a little bit ahead of it can mean so much in the big picture.

Just take 30 days and see how you feel. Also, know that I have your back. I may not know you face to face, but I do understand the struggles of not feeling adequate, not knowing what I am doing wrong and then finding out that it is not me but the what I am eating that is affecting my depression and causing the chronic pain in my body.

So who is joining me – Comment below, come over and join the facebook group. And let’s do this together because there is no need to be alone.

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